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Realise a problem exists. see the opportunities and solutions if offers Fact is a belief Fear a feeling Failure a result An interpretation secures |
Life is a cycle, a moment, dimensionally one way
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Doubt is a gift |
Friendship is rare Conversation a gossip Confiding a trust
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Believe |
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Changes are accepted, many issues, things and situations are unknown, and (daily) practised routines are shattered, creating freedom of thought. Acceptance and faith in a situation or to the unknown, increasing the feeling of success, in being good enough, being accepted by others, us being important to them belonging together, being equal. Transform your comfort zone, it is the happiness you always craved for and you deserve!
Brain stops thinking; frustration, uncertainty, lack of the visible possibilities, absence of all possible comprehendible solutions, magical justification is in command, the search for control begins. Accept change, adept aim, be mindful of strengths
Comfort zone defended by the absence of change?
Changes, are avoided, everything assumed as known and everything is a daily practised routine, ensuring, defending and maintaining the status quo. Change is felt as fear, creating the feeling that change will force us to not understand anything, loosing control. Fear makes us feel anxious, inducing a feeling of failure of not been good enough in the eyes of others, feeling and assuming their rejection of us, moving us towards isolation. Change your comfort zone and understand the feeling of how others perceive and accept us.
Perfectionism leads us to fear in losing control of things or clarity? A problem arises; brain goes into justification mode, plotting defence at assumed wrong doing, seeking no solutions, mapping out a plausible explanation, convincing only one, ourselves and our righteousness. Less is more. trust is a gift, options are visions
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